FAMILY CONSTELLATION THERAPY

A therapeutic approach to issues long held in a genetic line, which, unknowingly and often surprisingly, re-emerge in our lives and our children’s lives as illness, breakdown in relationships and personal issues.

“When it comes to our parents and our family history, we have no choice and no say in the matter. We are simply connected and subject to the influence of the collective conscience of our particular system. But we do have some choice about how entangled we are and remain.”

— Stephen Hausner

Rejecting Our Parents Comes at a High Cost

What we reject in our parents, we reject in ourselves.

  • We may also reject these aspects in our children.

  • Rejecting our parents blocks the energetic ancestral life-flow.

  • We may feel weaker in life, less able to face challenges, and more easily knocked over.

Rejecting our parents comes with many pitfalls and can lead to life-sabotage.

Peace: What Is Healing?

“Peace isn’t about ending conflict, friction, or judging right and wrong. It’s about belonging. When the Soul is connected to the Source of life, nothing is too big to manage. Our peace comes from that connection.”

— Bert Hellinger, the founder of Family Constellation Work

Systemic Family Constellation work addresses long-held issues in a family system that often emerge across generations, such as:

  • Illness

  • Relationship breakdowns

  • Personal struggles

It’s a path to restoring love and compassion for yourself and your family, ensuring generational pain doesn’t carry forward.

The Purpose of Systemic Family Constellation Work

“Love can flow more freely in a family when the Orders of Love are respected.”

— Bert Hellinger

Key Principles

  • Belonging

    Everyone has a place in the family, no matter what.

    Exclusion disrupts balance and may lead to illness or misfortune.

    Even those forgotten, rejected, or harmed are part of the family system.

  • Order

    Natural flow: parents give, children receive.

    Children carrying too much burdens disrupts balance, often seen in addiction or violence.

    Returning the burden restores harmony.

  • Balance

    Giving and receiving must be balanced between family members.

    Opposites need each other to move forward.

    Family Constellation work uncovers hidden dynamics for real healing.

    Illness is best understood in the cross-generational context.

“When the family has been brought into its natural order, the individual can leave it behind while still feeling the strength of their family supporting them.”

— Bert Hellinger

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